I'm 34 and completely at peace with myself. Dave likes me to wear tight fitting clothes and go braless so other men can drool over me. I, also, find that exciting and on occasion my nipples seem destined to break thru whatever top I am wearing. I don't trim my pussy because Dave likes seeing a little hair even when we are at the beach. I stopped shaving my arm pits about 7 years ago at Dave's repeated requests. I think I look like a slut, but if that is what Dave wants that is what Dave is getting. As I said before, I am completely at peace with myself. Our sex life is full and exciting. Debbie Fishman