I am a very attractive 42 year old transsexual lady. My name is Bobbi, but I was born Robert. That was years ago when you didn't hear anything about transsexual ladies and it wasn't the "in thing". I married a wonderful man who I met in a gay club 16 years ago. I want to totally block out the part of my life before I became Bobbi. Jeff is a chemical engineer and I am a stay home "mother". We were having sex almost ever night after the wedding, but we are only having sex 2 or 3 times a week now. Typical "All American" marriage? We try to make it that and I think we are doing pretty good. Bobbi Jessup